Thank you 3cx!!! What an incredible product. (dial by first name directory aside) once I started a new instance with the same 3cx license, !NOT IN VIRGINIA! but in Ohio (far from hurricanes and better/cheaper labor pool) I logged in with the new password, and was able to restore from backups that were in the google drive folder (file path none, right to the root) once I reauthorized the gdrive to use the unique email associated with this account. DO NOT fool with the fqdn "release" button in the license management panel, from what I can find that will release your fqdn, and has nothing to do with the IP. The PBX express INSTANTLY updated the new ip in the license/user control panel. I was worried that my old instance at lightsail would become unstuck and duplicate the license in the new install but I was able to delete it 3 days later after I opened a ticket with billing and complainded that I was paying for a stuck (frozen in pending state) and all is well. Things I noted upon restore:
1) Needed to redo sip trunk as my IP endpoint changed with new IP and my voip provider requires ip authentication and my new Lightsail instance had a new ip, and when I deleted the original trunk to update the ip authentication, it deleted all inbound and outbound routes.
2) DNS update with new ip was thankfully prompt, I have standard free license, and with 5 mins I was able to log into new instance with 3cx fqdn, and with in 1.5 - 2 hours both my sbc's popped back online, and extensions all came up.
3) Lightsail with no support you are on your own, I dont see alot of support on this or any other forums I searched for, and the cheapest support plan is $420 a year, almost the same cost of hosting 10 vms for a year. They do have a "incident health report" that within 20 mins told me that my underlying VMS was dying, and that they were on it. 2 hours later they update with info about power failure, see below.
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Whats up with that Lightsail VA zone-A datacenter? Ok, power goes out, and the standby power lays down? That is INEXCUSABLE!!! you fork over top dollar and you get this?? Suggest load testing the standby gensets, I used to sell emergency genset load banking, it's required for hospitals around here, should be datacenter 101, but Im going to take my chances in OH untill I can find a more reliable host.