Good Morning,
I had the same problem, and it is very embarrassing, especially as IT manager and 3cx opologist as implementer, explain the management of a company, where the business lives on the phones, it will have to stop one day to solve the problem .
How to explain to the company that made a recent investment, that after all the phones are no longer supported on some models, and what's going to have to change everything?
Solution to phones constantly ringing after update:
The phones when they are playing do not let you make the changes.
1. download the firmware on the page of 3cx
https://www.3cx.com/support/phone-firmwares/
2. change the account ext. password in 3cx so that the phone does not register
3.create a TFTP, and put the files made available by 3CX
https://www.grandstream.com/sites/default/files/Resources/Firmware_Upgrade_Guide.pdf
4. on the machine that will have TFTP, turn off the firewall and antivirus
5. on the phones, restart and log in, change the settings to update via FTP
and restart.
Good luck.