Hello,
The frequency with which we push debian packages updates varies. We review and evaluate available updates, if they are normal updates or security ones, if they are dependencies of 3CX, the severity of any vulnerabilities an update fixes, their exploitability and more.
Given that all packages are first tested by our team before they make it to the repository, you don't immediately see them after they are released in the official Debian repo. Again, it depends on many factors how much that delay might be.
Now regarding the initial question, our repository currently has the latest available stable version of openssh. Don't rely too much on vulnerability scanner reports because they will commonly just blindly check what is the latest available version and list it. In this case, the suggested 9.6 version is in the testing debian repo. We don't push packages from testing/unstable repositories as they are not ready for production use.
Lastly, if you have 3CX Automatic Updates enabled Debian updates will be installed regardless if there is a 3CX update or not. (meaning a 3CX update/service pack is not required for the O,S packages to be updated.)