Phone make, model? Version of 3CX and what hardware it is running on? How are inbound calls routed and from what type of provider - SIP, PSTN, ,PRI, etc.? Interface used if not SIP, ring group and how many extensions in same? What about from extension to extension?
Simply put, you have not provided us with anything other than a symptom, which may be influenced by a number of things...some of which I have listed.
To amplify a little, it sounds like you have calls routed to a ring group and the strategy is ring all. The system, depending upon your hardware and network speeds, has to notify all of the call and depending upon how many extensions there are, this may take a little time as the messages are sent sequentially to each. Conversely, when answered, the system then has to notify the other extensions that some other extension has done so and again this may take a little bit and, depending upon the ring tone, may take the phone some time to cease the ring.