Thanks Nick and wzaatar for your replies. It's all up and running now - basically problem with the voip provider. I had already set up the STUN, static port forwarding, passed the firewall test, etc. The wireshark showed all packets doing the right kind of thing, but just the audio not being accepted on the provider end.
I understand it's a commercial product and ideally I would have a support package and paid version, but I am an individual enthusiast rather than a serious business with mutliple phone needs. I am very grateful that you make available the free version and am happy to try to pick my way through it with the goodwil and help of the members of this forum. I don't expect anything as I'm getting it free and so am very happy for all the advice I do get.
Wish you all the best with the business.